Sexual Questionnaire for self-understanding and partner understanding.

Self LOVE, Masturbation, Pleasure

Do you masturbate?

When you masturbate is it quick for the release or do you make it an experience?

What things do you use for stimulation during masturbation? Example: toys, imagination, pornography, surroundings?

What gets you to climax?

When is your ideal timeframe for masturbation or sex? Example: Morning, Lunch, Afternoon, Evening, Night, Early morning, Being woken up?

Do you explore yourself outside of masturbation through sensual touch, mental stimulation, spiritual stimulation?

Do you know what your turn Ons are physically being done to you, doing to another, looks, surroundings, personality...ect?

Do you think or fantasize about sexual situations often...and how often?

Desires & Attractions

What are your sexual desires? (fetishes, positions, touch, likes & dislikes)

Do you have carnal desires or not if yes what are they?

Do you have mental desires and attractions if yes what are they?

Do you have physical desires and attractions if yes what are they?

What physically turns you on in self and another human being like a partner?

What types of touch do you desire for pleasure?

What parts of your body are your erogenous zones?

What areas of your body are you confidant in and turn you on?

What areas of your body are you insecure with and effect your sexual experience?

What are you attracted to in another individual?

What are you not attracted to in another individual?

What are your things you are willing to compromise in another individual?

Are you honest with self and others with your desires & attractions?

Are you honest with your partner about your sexual desires and needs?

What are your turn offs?

Are they anything sexually that gross you out? Example: Audible, tactile, smells, sights...if yes what are they?

Is there anything sexually that makes you uncomfortable?

Is there anything sexual that you consider forbidden socially and/or personally?

What are your spiritual turn ons and connections?

Have you ever had a spiritual sexual experience?

If yes what was it and made it special for you?

Seduction & Pleasure

Do you prefer to seduce or be seduced or both...and what are your likes and dislikes?

How do you like to be seduced?

How do you like to seduce others?

What brings you pleasure?

Example:

Environment

Surroundings

Smells

Sounds

Music

Visual

Audible

Dirty Talk

Sensual Touch in Erogenous Zones

Optimal Timing Example: Morning, Lunch, Afternoon, Evening, Night, Early morning, Being woken up?

Physically

Mentally

Spiritually

Sexually

Intimacy

What is intimacy to you?

Do you have intimacy with self?

Do you have intimacy with a partner?

Have you ever experienced intimacy?

Do you have intimacy in your friendships?

Do you have intimacy in your spirituality?

Do you have intimacy with family?

Self Aware Questions

Is there anything you have wanted to try or experience?

What genders do you fantasize about?

Are your desires and needs being met?

If they are not what are you willing to do about it and compromise about?

Are there things sexually make you feel shameful?

Are there traumas sexually? Example: Sexual shaming, beliefs, religion, generational, parental, abuse, addictions, self medicating due to traumas weather hyper or hypo sexual?

How does that make you feel?

Does your ego get in the way of sex?

are you intimidated by toys, the size of penis, elasticity of vagina, performance issues, you dont like something your partner does or doesnt do...exampleCunilingus/Anal.*

Talk about all this shit with partner or partners...this is why infidelity and divorce is so high...communicate sex, money, goals, dreams.. all of it.